Many
of us have been taught in church that joy and happiness are different. That
teaching says joy is not an emotion but a state of being because we have a relationship
with Christ and happiness is a temporary emotion based on something that
happened. Simplified -we have been taught joy is a Christian concept and
happiness is a worldly concept. But is this correct?
It
is an interesting teaching, however, nowhere in the Bible does it make that
distinction. In fact, in over 100 verses the Bible lumps them together and uses
the two words interchangeably. A few examples are:
Esther
8:16— For the Jews it was a time of happiness
and joy, gladness and honor.
Jeremiah
31:13— I will turn their mourning into joy.
. . and bring happiness out of grief.
Proverbs
23:25–Give your father and mother joy!
May she who gave you birth be happy.
In both the Webster dictionary and
bible dictionaries the words joy and happiness are synonyms and are used to
mean the same thing. Miriam Webster Dictionary defines joy as:
Definition of joy
The
emotion evoked by well-being, success, or good fortune or
by the prospect of possessing what one desires: delight
by the prospect of possessing what one desires: delight
A
state of happiness or felicity: bliss
Definition of happiness
Good
fortune: prosperity
A
state of well-being and contentment: joy
A
pleasurable or satisfying experience
Bible
Dictionaries - Baker's Evangelical Dictionary of Biblical Theology, define joy
and happiness in the same way.
Joy
Happiness
over an unanticipated or present good. In the Old Testament joy covers a wide
range of human experiences—from sexual love (So 1:4), to marriage
(Pr 5:18), the
birth of children (Psalm113:
9), the gathering of the harvest, military victory (Isa 9:3 ), and
drinking wine ( Psalm104:15
). On the spiritual level it refers to the extreme happiness with which the
believer contemplates salvation and the bliss of the afterlife. Unexpected
benefits from God are expressed in terms of common experiences. The psalms
express the joyous mood of believers as they encounter God. Believers rejoice
because God has surrounded them with his steadfast love (32:11) and brought
them to salvation (40:16;
64:10). David
rejoices that God has delivered him from the hand of his enemies (63:11). Joy is a
response to God's word (Psalm 119:14) and
his reward to believers (Isa 65:14) and
their strength (Ne8:
10).
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Happiness
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In the Bible
dictionary the definition of the word happiness
is joy. In most of the dictionaries
joy is happiness and happiness is joy. They are the same.
The
idea of joy and happiness having two different meanings is a relatively new
concept in church history, a modern Christian idea. Certainly the early church
fathers used the words interchangeable.
We
should not teach believers to only pursue joy and not happiness. Some of the
best verses describing joy use the word happiness.
If a man has
recently married, he must not be sent to war or have any other duty laid on
him. For one year he is to be free to stay at home and bring happiness to the
wife he has married. Deuteronomy 24:5
(By the way, wives, isn’t this a
great verse?!)
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Let’s
take back the word happiness, and
stop deeming it unbiblical.
To have joy in our journey, know that it includes being happy as well!
This is really good. While I do believe that joy is a much deeper state of being, one that withstand any trial, I also believe the two go hand in hand so often. I really enjoyed your perspective on this! I want to be happy and full of JOY!
ReplyDeleteMe too Barbie! Thanks for stopping by!
DeletePlease tell me you have read The Happiness Dare by Jennifer Dukes Lee! Yes... I want both Happiness AND Joy!
ReplyDeleteNo, but I did read The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin a few years ago. --I will look up The Happiness Dare --it sounds like I need to get it.
DeleteI have a lot of lousy days yet filled with JOY.
ReplyDeleteThis is a lovely meditation for an early, rainy morning. Thank you for sharing.
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