Showing posts with label listening to God's voice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label listening to God's voice. Show all posts

Monday, November 30, 2015

God Speaks Through a Police Officer


Some years ago my husband was pulled over by a police officer as he made a right hand turn onto the street leading to our house. After the officer took his license and registration, he asked,



 “Do you know why I pulled you over?”

“I really don’t.” my husband answered.

“Well, you didn’t have your turn signal on. But that is not the main reason. Did you know someone is selling drugs out the back of your store?”

“No, I don’t know what you are talking about. I have never seen anyone selling drugs.”

“I have to ask you, do you do drugs?” the officer asked.

“No Sir, I don’t.”

“Our substation has been monitoring the activity going on in the alley behind your store and we believe someone inside your store is selling drugs and the transactions are taking place outside your back door.
My recommendation is that you halt all activity out that door and in the alleyway. Because, the next time we see it happening we will raid your store and take everyone in for questioning.” he said.

The next morning my husband called the three men who worked in the back of the shop, and used the back door frequently, into his office. He told them he was locking and bolting the door, and all activity, smoking or having “friends” drop by to visit them in the back alley was to cease. They were only allowed to use the front door where everything was visible and no one was allowed to visit them during work hours.

He had a strong suspicion as to which man was selling the drugs, but no actual proof, besides the officer’s words. Bolting the door solved the problem or at lease moved the problem somewhere else.

We were grateful to God for sending that police officer to warn us about what was happening in our store. We had no idea, but our God, who sees everything, knew and interceded on our behalf.

Throughout the Bible God used people and circumstances to warn people.

God used a dream to warn Joseph and the king of Egypt of the coming famine in the land.

God used Moses to warn the Egyptian Pharaoh to set the Hebrews free.

He used an angel to warn Mary and Joseph to flee Bethlehem with baby Jesus.

He used Balaam’s donkey to warn him not to curse the Hebrew people.

And He used a police officer to warn us of the illegal activity going on in the back of our store.

The Bible is filled with warnings for us as well:

“These things happened to them as examples for us. They were written down to warn us who live at the end of the age.” 1 Corinthians 10:11

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Has God ever used a person or event to warn you of something? We would love to have you share it in the comments below.


Sunday, November 8, 2015

How Loud Does God Have to Be?


The Bible says God speaks to us in a “still small voice.” But, sometimes it seems He goes to extreme measures to cause us to hear Him, especially when we are disobeying what He already told us to do or stop doing.

A friend shared this story with me:

"I had a nagging issue that haunted my life for years… alcohol.  I was not an alcoholic, but I was married to one.  As a bible believing Jesus follower, I abstained from alcohol for 8 years hoping it would help my husband to quit drinking. However, he never quit and it infuriated him that I did not drink. I know the Bible does not state that alcohol use is a sin, but only drunkenness. Ephesians 5:18 says. “Do not get drunk on wine but be filled with the Holy Spirit.”  But for me and my situation, I knew God wanted me to avoid all alcohol.
Most of my Christian friends drink alcohol on occasions and do not get drunk. My husband begged me to be more relaxed and drink again. I considered how others drink and they still love Jesus. Finally, I caved as I reasoned that Jesus drank wine too, right?  I determined that I would only have limited alcohol on special occasions… just a glass of wine- like Jesus.  Special occasions became more frequent.  One glass became two.
One night I went with my girlfriend to a “special occasion” make -up party.  It had been a rough week so I jumped at the opportunity for some fun. 
My friend drove me home from the party and I realized I was supposed to go pick up my daughter from church. Usually her dad picked her up, but he was gone, so I zipped out to get her.  While I was driving her and her friend home, I started to switch lanes but then realized there was a car next to me.   And, I may have heard a faint noise -possibly the sound of my car tapping an object.  Both of our vehicles pulled over to assess any damage- no dents, just a dab of my car’s paint rubbed on his mirror.  
Rather than take responsibility for the minimal damage, I told him I could not be sure who was at fault, (my insurance agent taught me this clever trick).  The other driver called the police.  The cop came to my window and asked if I had been drinking alcohol.  I nervously answered “yes, a glass, well, actually two half glasses of wine.”  My mind was reeling. “Why in the world did I drink alcohol and then drive?” Actually, “Why in the world did I even drink alcohol?”  
The DUI officer gave me a breathalyzer test and arrested me.  When he handcuffed me and shoved me into his vehicle, I immediately heard the powerful voice of GOD!  It was not an audible voice but it was clearly recognizable and decisive.  God told me that He would not be mocked, that He had warned me prior to quit alcohol but that I had not listened.   He conveyed that I was to immediately quit drinking alcohol and to thank the DUI officer.  I praised God for the lesson and then I thanked the officer, explaining to him what God told me about quitting all alcohol.  (I wish I could say that the officer trusted that I learned a valuable lesson and released me!)  No, I was shaken to the absolute core for 21 hours until my release from jail.  I considered all the “what if’s” and am eternally grateful that no one was hurt!  I was deeply repentant, bearing huge regret over my dreadful choices.  It would have been much easier if I had listened to the Lord’s sweet, quiet voice earlier… then He wouldn’t have had to yell!  And yet, in my jail cell the Lord spoke love and forgiveness over me.  
In James 1:2, Paul writes, “Consider it all joy when you endure trials.”   If we listen to HIS voice in trials, then the eyes of our hearts are enlightened to consider it pure joy.  With divine purpose, our glorious God made beauty from ashes.  I am delighted to live 100% alcohol free and my children are better off because of it.   Now I try more diligently to listen and obey HIS sweet, quiet voice before it gets loud."
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Have you had a time when God went to extremes to get you to listen to Him? Have you found it is easier to listen and obey the first time you hear Him?

In the month of October I wrote a series called 31 Days of Hearing God. If you missed it, you can click on the links below.

Day 1: Take Off Your Sandals

Day 2:  God in the Grocery Store

Day 3:  God in the Grocery Store - Part2

Day 4:  Peeking During Prayer

Day 5:  How Do We Know God's Voice?

Day 6:  A Young Mom, Toddler Toys and Hearing God

Day 7:  Hearing God When Making Decisions

Day 8:  Lining Up Those Ducks

Day 9:   Hearing God for Our Kids

Day 10: God or Genie in a Bottle?

Day 11: The Perfect Day to Hear God

Day 12: Hearing God in a Crisis

Day 13:  7 Ways to Test an Impression

Day 14:  Remote Assignment

Day 15:  God's Silence

Day 16:  Hearing God While Dating

Day 17:  Hearing God Bible Verses

Day 18:  What Others Say About Hearing God

Day 19:  Hearing God Through Distractions

Day 20:  Hearing God as a Child

Day 21:  Hearing God in Confusion

Day 22:  Hearing God's Encouraging Voice

Day 23:  Hearing God on a Tractor

Day 24:  An Email Confirmation

Day 25:  Do You Really Want to Hear From God?

Day 26:  Why Hear God?

Day 27:  Are You Texting God?

Day 28:  Hearing God in Our Depression

Day 29:  To Hear God We Must Know God

Day 30:  Desperate to Hear God

Day 31:  Desperate to Hear God (Part 2)

 

Saturday, October 31, 2015

Desperate to Hear God (Part 2)

. . . Click here to read Part 1.

          I felt a calm come over me. Nothing about my situation changed, but somehow I knew everything was going to be okay.

          The next day at work, I took a phone book and walked to a back office to use the phone. (This was a few years before Google and cell phones.) The only person I could think of to call, and ask, “um, how do I get back to God?” was the Senior Pastor at the large church I attended a few years before. I didn’t know him personally, nor did he know me, so I certainly don’t hold it against him, but I burst into tears when his secretary told me he could not talk to me. She offered to put me through to the College Pastor. Knowing what I know now, I should have spoken to the College Pastor. I’m sure he knew exactly how I could find my way back to God. At the time, though, I was embarrassed and didn’t think anyone else ever had this problem, so I didn’t want to talk to just anybody.
Still desperate and sad, I prayed again,

“God I don’t know anybody who can help me. Please send someone who can help me get out of this pit and back to You.”


I needed to get myself together, so I got in my car and left for my lunch break. On the way, I drove past my old high school and stopped at a red light. A group of high school students crossed in front of me on their way to the pizza place across from the school. There, in the middle of the group, I saw the leader of the Young Life group I went to when I was in high school. He walked in front of my car and I knew instantly God brought him there at the exact time I stopped at the light. It was as if God was parading him in front of me, with a neon sign over his head saying Call him.
Smiling, I knew God answered my prayer. “Yes Lord! That’s a great idea, I will call him!”
           
          I didn’t know him and his wife well, and I doubted they would remember me. But I knew I had to call them, because they would know how to help me get back to God. That was what Young Life was about, telling high school students how to have a relationship with God. Surely, I wasn’t the only one who fell away from God and didn’t know how to get back. I couldn’t wait to talk to them.
        
           I will never forget what they told me the night I met with them. After I explained my dilemma, he said, “I know what your problem is. You are trying to be a Lone Ranger Christian. You need to be with other believers. God didn’t make us to walk the Christian life by ourselves.”

          They invited me to a college women’s Bible study. We met weekly and studied about spiritual gifts.Through the weeks of reading God’s Word, studying, praying and meeting with others who wanted to grow closer to God, an amazing thing happened.

I found my way back to Him.

"Then you will call upon Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart. ‘I will be found by you,' declares the LORD."    Jeremiah 29:12-14

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I hope you enjoyed this series on Hearing God. This was part of the month long writing challenge at write31days.com. To read the rest of the series, click the links below. If you would like to read future posts, please sign up in the upper right hand corner to receive them by email.


Day 1: Take Off Your Sandals
Day 2:  God in the Grocery Store
Day 3:  God in the Grocery Store - Part2
Day 4:  Peeking During Prayer
Day 5:  How Do We Know God's Voice?
Day 6:  A Young Mom, Toddler Toys and Hearing God
Day 7:  Hearing God When Making Decisions
Day 8:  Lining Up Those Ducks
Day 9:   Hearing God for Our Kids
Day 10: God or Genie in a Bottle?
Day 11: The Perfect Day to Hear God
Day 12: Hearing God in a Crisis
Day 13:  7 Ways to Test an Impression
Day 14:  Remote Assignment
Day 15:  God's Silence
Day 16:  Hearing God While Dating
Day 17:  Hearing God Bible Verses
Day 18:  What Others Say About Hearing God
Day 19:  Hearing God Through Distractions
Day 20:  Hearing God as a Child
Day 21:  Hearing God in Confusion
Day 22:  Hearing God's Encouraging Voice
Day 23:  Hearing God on a Tractor
Day 24:  An Email Confirmation
Day 25:  Do You Really Want to Hear From God?
Day 26:  Why Hear God?
Day 27:  Are You Texting God?
Day 28:  Hearing God in Our Depression
Day 29:  To Hear God We Must Know God
Day 30:  Desperate to Hear God (Part 1)
Day 31:  Desperate to Hear God (Part 2)

Friday, October 30, 2015

Desperate to Hear God

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          I sat alone in my dorm room crying. How had I fallen this far away from God? I was miserable, lonely, and empty. I sobbed at my desk, makeup running down my face, big blubbering sobs. I hated my life and everything I was doing and had no hope for my future or plan to get out of my situation. I was failing college, but more importantly I missed my relationship with God


Thinking back, I remembered as a young girl, I could not wait to get baptized. When my Dad prayed with me and I asked Jesus to be the Lord of my life and committed to follow Him, I meant every word and my life changed. I loved reading the Bible, loved going to church, loved learning about God and His Son. I grew up in a military family, so we moved every two years. Every place we moved, we found a church and started attending. I was the most enthusiastic about going to church, and when my family didn’t go, God always provided a friend or another family who took me to church. I couldn’t get enough. I loved singing praise songs to Him. I loved memorizing Bible verses. As I grew older, I went to church camps and attended and led Bible studies during high school.

Somewhere along the line I walked away from God. It makes me sad to admit it now, even many years later. But, I turned my back and walked away from the God who loved me so dearly and had been with me everywhere I went. Foolishly, I decided to see what life was like doing the things college life had to offer.
So, there I was that dark night all alone. I felt like I was in a dark pit and had no idea how to get out. Through my tears I cried up at my ceiling,

“Help me God! I don’t know how to get back to You. What do I do?

 I poured out my heart to Him and told Him how sorry I was for the stupid things I had been doing. I wanted to be done with that life, but I didn’t know how to take the first step. I had not gone to church in a couple of years and did not know any Christians who I could ask for help.

After several hours of crying and begging God to show me how to get back to Him, I collapsed in a heap. I knew God spoke to people in the Bible, and I wanted so much to hear His voice, for Him to tell me what to do and show me the way out of the pit I was in. I didn’t hear His voice that night, but I knew He heard mine. I knew He loved me and He would show me how to find Him again.   
(Part 2 tomorrow)

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Have you ever been desperate to hear God? Did you know then that He loved you and heard your prayer, even if you didn't hear Him? Please share in the comments below.


If you would like to read some great stories of people who have heard God speak to them, click on one of the links below. This is Day 29 in a series about Hearing God. It is part of a writing challenge at www.write31days.com. When you finish reading here, please hop over to that site for many great topics and blogs.

Thursday, October 29, 2015

To Hear God We Must Know God


I hope you have enjoyed this month of stories about people hearing God. One of the main things I learned is in order to hear God we have to know God. We need to know who He is, how He acts, what His characteristics are in order to know what He sounds like.
         The first time God spoke about Himself in the Bible was when He showed His glory and goodness to Moses. He tells Moses, and us, what He is like. In Exodus 34:6,7, God describes Himself as compassionate, gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, and forgiving. When we are praying and listening for God to speak to us, and we hear those characteristics we can know it is God.
         In the New Testament, Jesus told his disciples if they saw Him, then they saw God the Father, because they were the same. What is Jesus like? It is His Spirit that lives inside us, if we are His followers. His spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness and self-control.  When we hear a voice that sounds like that, we can know it is God speaking.
         If we hear a voice in our spirit that makes us feel bad about ourselves, that is not God’s voice. The Bible says it is the enemy who accuses us, condemns us and makes us feel guilty. The enemy’s voice will make us feel bad about ourselves.
         God does not condemn us or make us feel guilty. He will correct us, but in a way that we still feel good about ourselves. We will be thankful for the correction. It will be a positive in our life. He will speak the truth to you in a way that will set you free.
         What we know of God, how we perceive Him and what we think about Him determines how and if we hear Him. To hear God, we must understand who He is and what He is like.



If you would like to read some great stories of people who have heard God speak to them, click on one of the links below. This is Day 29 in a series about Hearing God. It is part of a writing challenge at www.write31days.com. When you finish reading here, please hop over to that site for many great topics and blogs.


 

Wednesday, October 28, 2015

Hearing God in Our Depression

     When my friend Michele’s military husband was deployed for a year, leaving her with four kids at home, and away from their families, she shared this story:


There were times when I felt like I could not catch my breath as panic set in.  Bitterness had taken root in my heart.  The reality of my current life situation compounded with the many unknowns in our future set me into a tail spin.   Well meaning friends would ask how they could help us and all I wanted to do was scream to them, "I do not want your help, I want my husband home!" I am pretty sure there were times that my children thought about the phone-a-friend option!  I am pretty sure that if anyone on the outside had seen our reality they would have questioned my stability.
And then God spoke to my heart.
Through a military spouse-specific devotion book I purchased and His perfect timing, I found the reassurance that I needed. God cares, and He was just as sad as I was.  And maybe even angry as well.  He does not desire to see His people hurt, but He does desire to see them grow.”

         In learning to hear God we need to remember how much He loves us. He cares about the details of our lives. He cares if we are stressed and overwhelmed. He cares about our relationships. He cares about our kids, our marriages, our jobs and our ministries. There is not a pit of depression too deep that He can’t speak to us.
         The devotion book Michele read reminded her of how much God loved and cared for her and that He was sad about her life circumstances as well. Knowing that made all the difference to her. We have a God who cares and empathizes with us. Yet, He is strong enough to be our strength when we are weak. He is our Guide when we need direction. He is our comfort when we hurt. He is a father to the fatherless, and our friend when we are lonely.

This is how God showed His love among us: He sent his one and only son into the world that we might live through Him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. 1 John 4:9

To read the rest of Michele’s story or to check out her blog, click here.


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How about you? Have you heard God’s voice when you were in a pit of depression? What did God say to you? Please share in the comments below.

This is day 28 in the series about Hearing God. It is part of the write31days.com writing challenge. To read the other posts in this series, click the links below. If you enjoyed these post, please consider signing up to receive them in your email. Don’t worry on all other months I post, at the most, twice a week.




Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Are You Texting God?

          Have you noticed we are texting more and more? Or maybe it is just me because I have three sons who prefer text over talking. I also have women friends, my age (35, give or take ) who I only ever have text conversations with. Some of these are long paragraphs of information, some using correct grammar, some using a sort of abbreviated, no capitals, no punctuation, hybrid English. My actual phone conversations, where we are talking, are getting fewer and fewer. Even my Mom texts me more now. (Not that there is anything wrong with that Mom.) The point is, we seem to text more than we talk anymore.
     Don’t get me wrong, I like text –never while driving, of course –but texting has its place. Texting is great for sending and receiving information.

“Can you pick up some milk?”

“Please let the dogs out when you get home from school.”

“Let’s meet at Panera at 11:30.” 

I don’t know about you, but I have also received some long, loooooong detailed paragraphs of text telling me a personal or important story. Most of these would have been better as an actual conversation, on the phone or in person. I never know how to respond. I would like to call the person and talk to them, especially if they are describing a problem or want advice. But, because they text(ed) me first, I feel obligated to text back, thinking this is their preferred mode of dialogue.
On the phone, talking conversations or in-person conversations are much better for building friendships, showing care and genuine interest, sharing dreams, difficulties and life with people. IMHO (in my humble opinion) texts should be relegated to ‘information’ and actual talking should be for ‘conversation.’

In our text dominated world, is that what we do with prayer as well? Do we pray and expect God to send short, concise, immediate answers to our requests?

“God, should I take job A or job B?” 
A
   
“That person hurt me, should I hold a grudge or forgive?”
Forgive 

“Lord, he’s cute, should I go out with him, even though he is not a believer?”
No

God wants to have a relationship with us more than He wants to give out information. What good is the information or answers without a real, personal relationship with Him?

If we want to hear God, we need to pursue a personal relationship with Him, not just text Him questions about our immediate needs. God loves us and made us for relationships, both with Him and with others.

I know texting is here to stay, and I like the convenience as much as everyone else. When it comes to prayer, however, the God of the universe, the one who loves us more than anyone, wants to have a real, personal, communicative relationship with us. If we want to hear God we need to invest the time and effort it takes to have real conversations. When we do, it is always worth it.

John 15:15 “I have called you friends  . . .”

James 4:8 “Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.”

John 13:35 “Love one another even as I have loved you.”

Isaiah 41:10 “Don’t panic. I am with you. There’s no need to fear for I am your God. I’ll give you strength. I’ll help you. I will hold you steady, keeping a firm grip on you.”

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How about you? Do you ever feel like you are texting God for answers instead of pursuing a personal relationship with Him?


This is day 27 in the series about Hearing God. To read the other posts in this series, click the links below.





Sunday, October 25, 2015

Do You Really Want to Hear From God?

A friend gave me a copy of a booklet called God Guides by Mary Geegh. She was a missionary in India for 38 years. Early on, she learned she did not have all the answers to help the people she was there to serve. Through a visiting pastor, she learned God did have all the answers for His people, and the best way to find those answers was through listening to Him.

The booklet offers page after page of stories about people hearing God regarding their sin, what God wanted them to do next, and answers to their questions. It is based on Psalm 37:7:

“Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for Him,”

Pray America, which publishes the booklet, offers a sample prayer to start listening to God for answers, direction, repentance and any other need you might have. Here is the sample prayer from God Guides:

Father, I come to you in the name of Jesus Christ, Your Son, and according to James 1:5 I am seeking wisdom for  _____________________.
In the name of Jesus, according to Matthew 28:18 and Luke 10:19 & 20 I take authority over satan and his fallen angels and command that they be rendered deaf, dumb and blind to my prayers and removed from my presence. I place my own voice under subjection to the shed blood of Jesus and command that my own thoughts be taken captive to the obedience of Christ, according to 2 Corinthians 10:5. I ask Father that only Your Holy Spirit will speak to me as I wait on you for wisdom, insight and direction for ___________________ and what You show me and direct me to do I will quickly obey.

James 1:5 “If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him.”

Matthew 28:18 “Then Jesus came to them and said ‘All authority in Heaven and on earth has been given to Me.”

Luke 10:19-20 “I have given you authority to trample on snakes and scorpions and to overcome all the power of the enemy; nothing will harm you. However, do not rejoice that the spirits submit to you, but rejoice that your names are written in Heaven.”

2 Corinthians 10:5 “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.”

The idea is to sit with a pen and paper, pray, then wait and listen, and write down the impression the Lord gives you. This is not a formula, but an example of how others have learned to hear God for decisions they need to make.
Remember, sin blocks us hearing from God. So, if we have unconfessed sin,
deal with that first. Also, if God has already told you something to do or to stop doing, and you haven’t done that, He probably will not give you another word from Him until you obey the first thing.

I hope this helps. If you would like to read the booklet you can order one at prayamerica.org.

If you have used listening prayer in the past, we would love to hear how God spoke to you. Please share with us in the comments below.

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This is day 25 in the series about Hearing God. To read the other posts in this series, click the links below.